Dating advice too nice
People with low self-esteem don’t trust their judgment, don’t trust their gut instincts, and are afraid of being wrong.
As a result, they either live their lives in a constant state of anxiety, or they look to others to guide them along the right path.
People with high self-esteem don’t constantly question their actions and feel conflicted about the right thing to say or do.
They act on how they feel and are comfortable being their true, authentic selves.
If you don’t feel good about yourself, you will never truly believe that someone else can love you and you will constantly be on the lookout for the other shoe to drop, for the guy you care about to leave, thus validating the fact that you are unworthy of love.
Poor self-worth is what traps us in bad relationships, what sabotages new relationships, and what causes us to feel so devastated and broken when a relationship ends.
People with high self-esteem believe they are worthy of love and don’t question how someone feels about them.
They know that they are good, competent, and lovable and trust that the right person for them will see this.
Confident women don’t analyze if he likes them – they assume he does.
She won’t abandon important parts of herself or her life for the sake of the relationship and if a guy wants something else or something more than she’s willing to give, she’ll leave. Confident women trust themselves and the decisions they make.